Staffies are misunderstood, loving creatures
Imagine you bought a plant.
It was the plant to get; it befitted your status. But you never watered it. Or gave it sunlight.
You did, however, shout at it, show it aggression, not love, and generally give the plant no reason to like you or itself.
You then had the stupidy to express surprise that the plant gave up. Overall, you considered it a pretty lousy plant, on reflection.